Step 2: Shaving. The issue of whether to shave or not to shave is actually a hot topic button. While some prefer the genital area to be smooth and hair-free, others prefer a natural jungle. Whatever your preference, make sure your partner is on the same page as well. This is a duet, not a solo. Shaving your partner can actually be a sexy form of foreplay, try using a product like Coochy Creme which is specifically formulated to use on coarse pubic hair.
Step 3: Pick your position. Wait, you mean 69 doesn’t mean just one position? Of course not, this is sex people – there are about as many variations on the 69 position as there are on the standard missionary position – nothing’s standard anymore! According to the book Fifty Shades Of Oral Pleasure by Marisa Bennett, there’s the Reverse Hookup where you use any padded surface and he lies down with her on top. The Lazy 69 is a sideways 69 and you lie in bed together. The Massage Envy takes an erotic massage to a whole new level – make sure you have plenty of massage oil on hand. Downward Dog calls for the receiver to lie face down on the bed and present their rear for oral stimulation. There’s also the Strong Man which, obviously, needs a very strong man to support her weight while both partners are vertical, but she is upside down. Very dangerous if you don’t know what you’re doing!
Step 4: Add your accessories. Oral Sex is not complete without adding in some oral enhancements. Whether it’s a Good Head Gel, a BJ Blast or even just a flavored lip balm, no 69 encounter is complete without your favorite flavor. So go ahead and celebrate 6-9 Day!