May is Masturbation Month and this thing I am focusing primarily on myself (with the occasional assistance of Lance). Masturbation month is also a time I use for reflection – what have I discovered I enjoy, what have I grown to dislike, what is my body saying to me so that I can communicate that with my partner? This reflection can lead to growth and in growth should follow success (however you may define that success).
Archives for May 2019
Travel has become such a hassle, between the long lines, limited leg room, baggage fees, that by the time you get to your destination you might just feel you need a vacation from your vacation! Whether you need to destress while on vacation or just looking for a little fun, a vibrator should be an essential part of your packing – right alongside the travel toothbrush and mini hairdryer.
What do 90% of men and 65% of women do on a regular basis but never admit to?
It’s masturbation! How is it that something so normal and natural has become socially stigmatized? Our guess is religion has something to do with it! You can be sure as soon as Eve found the apple, Adam found his penis. Masturbation has been found depicted in prehistoric cave paintings. In Malta, a cave figure depicting a woman masturbating dates from 4 B.C. Indians described it in the Kama Sutra. Ancient Egyptians believed the god Atum created the universe by masturbating to ejaculation, and the ebb and flow of the Nile was attributed to the frequency of his ejaculations. Egyptian Pharaohs were therefore required to masturbate ceremonially into the Nile. Even as late as the 17th century nannies encouraged their male charges to masturbate before going to bed.
Fantasy Gifts NJ has announced the addition of Moxie by We-Vibe to its inventory.
You learn a lot about sex, bodies, anatomy, and about the companies who make and sell adult toys when you work in the sex toy industry, even if it is just as a sales associate in one of the most amazing family own boutiques in South Jersey. You make these connections with people also in the industry and, eventually, you become a liaison between company and consumer as you have the most contact with them on a regular basis. When I got my Satisfyer Pro Penguin I had more friends and friends of friends reach out to me and ask about it that any other toy I’ve owned– I mean, at one point Amber Rose was able to include it in her monthly box subscription “for free” so it’s a well known product just from that alone. I was excited as well just because I love the little penguin look to it (I’m guilty for occasionally letting aesthetics get the better part of my judgment).
Listen up guys! Sunday is Mother’s Day! While the day is traditionally devoted to the woman who gave you life, let’s think for a moment about the woman who gave your children life. After all, before she became a mother, she was your lover.
Young women with breast cancer have unique needs and questions. Fantasy Gifts NJ is pleased to help sponsor The Survivorship Series for Young Women Affected by Breast Cancer. This series by Living Beyond Breast Cancer will provide answers and resources on some of the most common concerns for young women diagnosed with breast cancer before the age of 45. Topics include sex and intimacy, early menopause, the long term effects of treatment and self-care after breast cancer. Attendees will receive information and a gift bag with samples of System JO and Screaming O lubricants.
If you’re planning a staycation this year, there’s no reason you can’t make it like a honeymoon. There’s plenty of adventures to be had in your own backyard, and bedroom!
A trend I’ve been noticing within manufacturers is a push for ergonomic toys – toys that fit the shape of your body that result in a far better experience when using them. I give much kudos for their attempts because I’ve had my share of experiences where I don’t even need to turn a vibrator on to know it’ll be awkward or won’t hit the right spots. Another trend I’ve noticed is this revival of finger vibes. They’ve been around for quite some time – definitely far longer than I’ve been using toys as a consumer – but they’re all been cheap, weak, and not pleasant in my experience. The move has been to make them more powerful and instead of sliding these vibes onto your finger, you slide a protruding piece of silicone or plastic in between your middle and index fingers perfectly.