5 Ways To Spice Up Holiday Intimacy

5 Ways To Spice Up Holiday Intimacy

We know how stressful the holiday season can be. You’re shopping, focusing on end-of-year work deadlines, and year-end commitments, and planning for the holidays altogether. In all of the chaos, it can be hard to devote time to intimacy. However, at Fantasy Gifts NJ, we pride ourselves on having a large selection of lingerie, sex toys, and games that make it easy to spice up your sex life. Yes, even during the holiday season.

Here are five tips on how to keep things spicy even when you’re feeling less than sexy.

#1 Set The Mood

It’s no surprise that there are times we aren’t really in the mood for sex. Maybe our mind is elsewhere, we don’t feel our best, or we’re just plain tired. Spicing up your sex life can be easy when you set the perfect mood. Lighting some candles in the bedroom can bring a cozy, calming atmosphere. If you’re looking to try something new, consider switching up the location of your intimacy. Filling the bath with bubbles and placing small tealight candles around the perimeter is the perfect setup for an intimate bath. 

#2 Make Intimacy Adventurous

Incorporating sex toys is a fun way to spice things up, too. Not only does it keep sex interesting and exciting, but it also allows you the opportunity to learn more about what your partner enjoys. Best of all, it helps you explore pleasure spots and increases intimacy between you both. You can incorporate mechanical toys, like a vibrator, into the bedroom or use something simple like a blindfold or silk necktie to heighten the senses. Our sex shop in Philly has a variety of sex toys that you can incorporate to make sex more adventurous. 

#3 Focus On Foreplay

For many people, foreplay is more enjoyable than penetrative sex because of the anticipation it builds. Foreplay ensures that both partners are physically and mentally warmed up to reach peak pleasure later on. One of the biggest misconceptions about foreplay is that it is purely sexual, but foreplay can mean a number of different things. From helping your partner cook dinner to sharing a flirty glance or an end-of-day massage, foreplay is unique to every couple. Focus on the smaller details that make your partner feel good in their bodies can be the perfect way to slow down and enjoy one another during this hectic time of year. 

#4 Try Something New

One of the best gifts you can give your partner is the opportunity to try something new. Not only will it be fun, but you may find a new sex position or toy that heightens your pleasure. Talk about a win-win. There are, of course, tons of books that can teach you new positions, but the best way is to just experiment with your partner to find what works best for both of you. As you try new things, be sure to maintain honest and open communication with one another so you can ensure you’re both on the same page. 

#5 Dress Up

Adding some fantasy to the bedroom is fun and helps make things a little more adventurous than usual. You can try slipping into some sexy lingerie or bedroom costumes to surprise your partner. Our online selection of costumes is broad and contains something for everyone’s style! 

Shop Fantasy Gifts

When you’re looking for fun things to incorporate into the bedroom, whether this holiday season or beyond, we have a large variety to choose from. From lacy lingerie to exciting sex games, we offer everything you need to spice up your intimacy. Shop with us today! 

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