how to give a romantic massage

Everyone loves a good massage! Even a bad one isn’t so bad! But if you’re looking to really learn how to give a romantic massage, it’s all about two things: technique and the right products!

A good romantic massage should be a full body massage. We love NURU Full Body Massage from System JO! A good, sensual massage should increase emotional closeness while creating an erotic and intimate experience. You can use NURU as a on your partner’s entire body to relax and arouse. Because it can be a little messy, we recommend pairing it with a NURU Passion Massage sheet. It’ll keep your real sheets oil-free and help make clean up quick and easy!

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Picking a good massage oil isn’t easy – there’s so many to choose from. We offer non-scented, warming, and scents in a variety of aromas. If you’re picking a scented massage oil, pick one that is pleasing to both you and your partner. And remember, a little goes a long way! You can always add more!

Set the stage by setting the right mood. Dim the lights. Light some candles. As a bonus, you can use massage oil candles. As they burn down, the wax melts into a heated massage oil that will not burn your partner.

For a full body massage, you can give your hands a break and use a massage wand. Bodywand makes a great line of full body massagers.

As for technique, it’s easy!

How to Give a Romantic Massage

  • Set the stage with candles and dim the lights
  • Make sure the room is warm so your partner is comfortable
  • Have a small cover for your partner to keep them warm in the areas not being worked on
  • Have your partner lie on their stomach
  • Begin with small amounts of oil and gently rub your hands together to warm the oil and your hands.
  • Use gentle but fairly firm strokes.
  • Start lightly and let your partner dictate how much pressure they want.
  • Start at the top and work your way down. A pleasing head massage is a great way to begin!
  • Massage the whole body with long strokes. Pay attention to their arms, their legs and even their feet.
  • Gently stretch their limbs but do not pull!
  • As you work your way up and down their body, save buttocks for last
  • Massage the buttocks in a circular pattern, slowly and gently easing your hands between their legs
  • Finish with a happy ending!

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