It’s that time of year again! The time when we take stock of the last year, think about all the things we didn’t like, and resolve to change them.
If you’re like most people, you won’t keep most of your resolutions past the first week of January. However, if your resolutions are fun, easy and include a whopping orgasm at the end – maybe the incentive to keep them will last longer than the time it takes to clean up the New Year’s Eve confetti!
Resolution #1. Take Time. Time for yourself, time for your partner, time for you and your partner together. Once a week, take time for yourself by truly getting in touch with yourself. Regular masturbation is healthy and normal. The more you masturbate, the more sexual you will feel. Take time for your partner by doing an unselfish sexual act at least once a month. Don’t worry about your pleasure, focus solely on your partner’s pleasure. Trust me, they will definitely return the favor but the true gift to yourself is the giving. Take time for you and your partner together by weekly turning off the phone, the television, the computer and connecting with your partner on an emotional level, free of distractions.
Resolution #2. Try Something Different. It can by anything. Restraints, anal, pegging or even just a flavored massage. You won’t know what you like and don’t like until you try it. Spice up your bedroom routine just by introducing something a little out of the ordinary. It can be as simple as swapping out your sheets for silk sheets, lighting a candle or even just trying a different position. To help you out this month we have a special on Sexperiment Kit’s.
Resolution #3. Make a Fantasy Come True. No, this doesn’t mean you have to give in to his three way fantasy or her construction men gang bang. But we all have something we’ve wanted our partner to try that we’ve just been too hesitant, embarrassed or uncomfortable to ask for. This year, ask. It can be as simple as role-playing or sex in a public place. Remember, fantasies should ideally be within each partner’s comfort zone but don’t be afraid to stretch it just a little!
Resolution #4. Bring the Romance Back. Remember to compliment your partner. Don’t forget to groom. Pretend like you’re newly dating – if you wouldn’t let that person see you pee, you shouldn’t let your partner see that either! And take the time to open a bottle of wine, light some candles with dinner or just put some sexy music on. Even a Tuesday night left over dinner can still be romantic.
Resolution #5. Bring the Sexy Back. Cotton pajamas, holey underwear, bras with breast-milk stains (even if your babies are now teenager!). None of that is sexy! Throw out the old underwear and bring the sexy back. You don’t have to wear a thong everyday but clean, well-fitting undergarments and sleepwear will certainly help to set the mood!
Resolution #6. Lighten Up! Be spontaneous, act a little crazy, kiss in public, go to bed naked! Kiss and hug your partner every day. Go out to dinner when the mood strikes. Communicate with your partner about your wants and needs and listen when your partner speaks to you.