Do you or your partner rubberstall?  Do you wait for the other person to bring up wearing a condom before you hook up, all the time kind of secretly hoping that they’ll forget about it?  Sad to say, but many men rubberstall.  And it’s not cool!  Consensual sex should always include a discussion about safe sex.  If you don’t break out a condom before sex, you’re just plain irresponsible.

So why wouldn’t a guy want to wear a condom?  After all, this ancient device should go right up there with the discovery of fire and the invention of the telephone as one of the top innovations of all time.  First, it is almost 99% effective at preventing unwanted pregnancies.   Second, it protects you and your partner from contracting any nasty STIs.  So that’s just good for everyone.

Granted, wearing a condom does have its downsides.  They can block pleasure, spontaneity and emotional intimacy – the three main reasons to have sex.  And condom designs haven’t actually been known for their innovation.  But they have improved since the dark ages!  Trojan Ultra Thin condoms are 25% thinner than standard condoms so it’s almost like going bare.  Fire & Ice Condoms have dual action lubricant inside and out to deliver warming and tingling sensations to both partners.  Charged condoms not only warm and tingle, but are also deeply ribbed  for maximum stimulation.  Her Pleasure condoms not only heighten her pleasure but provide extra comfort for him.  And if you really want a natural feeling and are in a committed relationship with no fear of STIs you can always try Natural Lamb condoms.

Safe sex should be a priority for both partners.  So don’t be afraid to speak up and avoid rubberstalling at all costs!

* This blog was updated on September 7, 2022 to remove or update links and information.