5 Ways To Stimulate Your Clit

For centuries, the clitoris has been shrouded in mystery- overlooked, and misunderstood. In fact, it is believed that the only reason the clit exists is purely for pleasure! The clitoris boasts a staggering 10,000+ nerve endings and don’t be fooled by the smaller bean-looking external part – the clitoris is larger and sits around the wall of the vagina opening. The positioning of the clitoris also provides the internal stimulation you feel during penetration with a partner or with a toy. Despite about 70%-ish (give or take depending on the specific study) vulva-havers only reaching orgasm through clitoral stimulation, some people with vulvas do find themselves having a harder time getting aroused or feeling any stimulation from their clitoris. This doesn’t mean you’re broken – it just means you have to find something that works for you!

Manual Stimulation

This one seems like a no brainer, but sometimes getting ‘hands-on’ first with exploring out bodies allows up to better feel exactly which parts of the clitoris is truly responsive to stimulation. And yes – you might have one side feel more sensitive than the other! Using your our hands first allows you to really experiment with pressure and if you prefer all over or pin-point stimulation. And don’t forget the lube! Too much friction can possibly cause a negative experience for you that will cause you to stop before you can fully process your body’s reaction to being stimulated.

Topical Sensations

Not yet ready to include a toy, but looking for some assistance? Topical clitoral stimulants can be placed directly to the head of the clitoris and when given the opportunity to be absorbed, can help increase blood flow to the area which in turn increases sensitivity! If you ever visit our stores, you’ll actually have the ability to give these stimulants a try by putting a small amount on the inside of your lip. This will pretty accurately mimic what you might expect to feel when you place it on your clit! You can also spot test elsewhere on your skin just to make sure you don’t react negatively to it. Our Pjur Lust and Sensuva On are our top seller in this department.

Vibrators As Tools

For more consistent and targeted sensations, using a clitoral vibrator will be extremely helpful in training your clit. You can find buzzy vibes which are more surface feeling sensations or deep rumbly vibrations that can stimulate the internal part of your clitoris as well as the surrounding muscles. And just because something is marketed as an “internal” toy, but you can still use it for external stimulation. OH – AND you can stimulate the clitoris internally as well, so don’t count yourself out yet!

Wine, Dine & 69

If partnered play is more your jam, make sure you aren’t skipping over any oral play! With the softness of a tongue and lips and the natural moisture that comes form a partners mouth are beneficial to creating amazing sensations to the clit. Plus you can do so much with your mouth like licking, kissing and even sucking to ensure there is a wide range of sensations you can enjoy!

Vocalization!

You brain is one of the largest sex organs and sounds are a huge part of arousal can come from sounds and vocalizations ranging from your partner, the porn you listen to or even yourself. Be vocal with it and let your partner know what you you’ve been liking and disliking. You’ll see what a huge difference it could make in creating amazing sensations for your clit!

If you’re looking for more tips and tricks on how to train your clit, you can visit us at our 3 locations in Turnersville, Marlton and Lumberton and speak with one of our highly trained associates can help with even more pointers! You can also follow us on our socials at @fantasygiftsnj or visit our website for more sexual health and wellness blogs and articles!