Giving Should Be As Much Fun as Receiving

Your Guide to Oral Sex

Oral sex should be a pleasurable experience for everyone involved. They don’t call it a job for nothing! While much attention is often given to the receiver’s pleasure, the giver’s comfort and enjoyment are equally important. Here’s our guide to making oral sex more enjoyable for the giving partner.

Create the Right Environment

• Set a comfortable temperature in the room. You might not want to be under a blanket so make sure the room is warm enough for your pleasure too!
• Use pillows for proper positioning and neck support
• Consider using dim lighting or candles to set the mood so you’re both in the mood
• Ensure you have easy access to water

Getting Ready

• Start with good hygiene for both partners
• Keep flavored lubricants nearby
• Have dental dams or barriers available if desired
• Consider a flavored oral sex candy to keep your mouth lubricated and tasty. Pick your favorite flavor – not theirs!

Get Comfortable

• Find a position that’s comfortable for your neck and back
• Take breaks when needed
• Use your hands or a toy to give your mouth a rest. If performing sex on a penis, a handheld stroker is a great aid. For cuninglingus, you may want to try a bullet vibrator for clitoral stimulation or a finger vibrator for internal/external stimulation.
• Alternate between different techniques to prevent fatigue.

Don’t Forget to Talk

• Communication is key – it’s called oral sex for a reason! Discuss your preferences beforehand.
• Establish non-verbal signals that respect both partners.
• Don’t hesitate to express your needs.
• Check in with your partner regularly.

Self Care After Oral Sex

• Keep water nearby for hydration
• Have mints or oral rinse available
• Practice gentle jaw stretches
• Take care of your neck and back
• Ask for reciprocity if desired

Don’t Forget . . .

The key to enjoyable oral sex is feeling comfortable and confident. Don’t feel pressured to maintain any position or technique that causes discomfort. When you’re comfortable and relaxed, both partners can better enjoy the experience. Visit our stores in Lumberton, Marlton or Turnersville, New Jersey for products that can enhance your experience, from flavored lubricants to positioning aids. Our knowledgeable staff is always happy to provide recommendations for products that can make intimate moments more enjoyable for everyone involved.