Expert Advice on Sex Toys, BDSM Accessories to Help Couples Experiment in the Bedroom!

Experimenting in the bedroom can be as simple as using a new sex toy together. If you’re more of the adventurous type, you can explore by acting out a fantasy — with costumes or masks. This can involve dressing up in your sexiest lingerie, playing a sex game, or adding role play to your routine. Some couples even enjoy watching “educational material” together for inspiration and new techniques. The choices are endless — As long as you feel comfortable with what you’re doing and enjoy yourself, it is 100% normal, safe, and healthy to add some kink to your relationship!

Exploring Fantasies – Through Costumes, Cosplay, or Role Play

Sexual role play has a strong erotic element. It may involve two or more people who act out roles in a sexual fantasy and may be a sexually arousing form of foreplay. It may take place in the real world, talking dirty by text or phone, or it could take place in a virtual setting, like a chat-room, or via email. Allowing for physically or virtually impossible erotic interests to be enacted.

Don’t be afraid to explore. Many people regard sexual role play as a means of overcoming sexual inhibitions. By adopting a new persona in the bedroom, you’re able to let go of any self-consciousness that you may have because you were acting out your fantasies in the realm of make believe. You were the naughty escort or the arrogant businessman, you weren’t you.

Consider setting rules and boundaries with the person you’re going to be playing out a fantasy sexual role play session with. These rules should be based on common sense and courtesy, like no laughing or judging each other. Remember that those who play together stay together and have fun with each other.

Take a walk on the wild side by using costumes or participating in cosplay fun. Where couples transform into the sexy, fantasy personas of their favorite comic book, video game, or movie characters. Costumes can be a personal expression of admiration for a particular character or figure, an expression of artistry or of one’s sexuality. In fact, cosplay has a lot to offer those who are interested in experimenting with their sexual identity. Traditional scenarios tend to use masks, lingerie, or uniforms.

Common Scenarios Include:
  • Doctor/Nurse/Patient: Medical fetishism where the participants play the roles of doctor, nurse, or patient.
  • Escort – Client: One partner assumes the role of paid escort for an encounter.
  • Executive – Secretary: One partner assumes the role of a business executive while the other takes the role of their secretary.
  • Handyman – Housewife: The tradesman enters the housewife’s home initially with the intent of carrying out plumbing/maintenance work.
  • Master – Slave: The slave is required to comply with all demands of the master.
  • Photographer – Model: This allows one partner to photograph the other before sexual interaction.
  • Stripper – Client: One participant performs a striptease for the other.
  • Teacher – Student: The student dresses for the part and must do as he/she is told, or is punished.
  • Gender-Play: Where one or more players take on roles of another gender.
  • Prison Fetish: Situational play set in a prison environment.
  • Torturer/Captive Prisoner: Where one player is a captor who ravishes or tortures the other player scenarios.
  • Uniform Fetish: One participant dresses in uniform (for instance as a cheerleader, French maid, etc.), while the other participant plays an authority figure (e.g., a parent, coach, police officer).

* This blog was updated on September 6, 2022 to remove or update links and information.

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