Netflix just released a new series called “How To Build A Sex Room” hosted and designed by interior decorator Melanie Rose and her designs is far more than what you think when it comes to a ‘sex dungeon’. In fact, many of the rooms are bright, inviting and intended to bring back intimacy to parents, celebrate couples’ passions, and enjoy each other even whether in a van or long distance. Melanie uses a ‘mood board’ to determine what each client is interested in their rooms that relates to their current or desired sexual preferences and fantasies. She also likes to introduce her bag of tricks and brings her clients to various lessons to help them find or refine those explored ideas. However, you don’t need a whole room renovation to make your own secret space for sex – just some of the sex toys introduced on the show can do the trick!

Beginner Bondage and Fetishes

Many of the items brought onto the show were some simple BDSM toys such as floggers, paddles, handcuffs, and blindfolds and are an inexpensive way to dip your toes into new fantasies and kinks. These are also part of sensation play with can include products such as pinwheels, candles, and electric stimulation which can be more advanced, but are still a safe and interesting way to explore new scenarios. Collars are also great way to step into role- or humiliation-play which can easily and quickly spice things up in the bedroom by adding to any new fantasies you or your partner may want to try.

Restraints and Positioners

For those a little more advanced or adventurous in BDSM, restraints are a great addition that can easily just be hidden right under your mattress (if you need to of course). Restraints range from handcuffs and bondage tape to over-the-door and bed restraints to mimic a St. Andrew’s Cross (without having to dump out your bank account to purchase one). The art of Shibari rope bondage is a perfect way to create a sensual situation by tying your partner up without having to restrain them … or you can if they consent. Positioner pillows and sex swings are also a great way to change up the way you play with each other without changing much in your space.

Toys and Sex Machines

Even if you add a single toy to the mix, it can truly change the way you have intimate moments with your partner. Wands are perfect for sharing because they are truly gender neutral and can be used all over. Couples toys that allow you to tease and please your partner from across the bed or across the world with one single app. Maybe a sex machine is something you’re willing to splurge on that can also be you and your partners naught secret. Of course, whatever toys you want to introduce is up to you and your partner and Fantasy Gifts NJ has tons to choose from both in-store and online. With the help of our associates, we can get your sex room up and running in no time!